February 2008

Why Voters, State Governments, and the Courts Support the One Man/One Woman Marriage Limitation

by Steven T. O’Ban

In September 2007, Bar News was dedicated to a single subject: marriage and the law. Our intent through the articles in that issue was to educate, debate, inform, advise, and stimulate our members’ thoughts on this important issue. We heard from several folks in the ensuing months, including Mr. O’Ban, who expressed concern that the articles included did not adequately represent all sides of the issue. In response, I asked him whether he would be willing to submit an article articulating his views on the subject in order to further the discussion and he readily agreed.

In March and April, the Board of Governors plan to hold discussions in conjunction with the Board meetings in Tacoma and Spokane, respectively, about legal issues surrounding marriage and the law in Washington state. In particular, how this issue affects the legal profession and the services we provide to our clients will be discussed —  areas such as property transfers, tort proceedings, evidentiary privilege, and employment and pension benefits. All interested WSBA members are encouraged to attend.

For more information about these forums, please visit the WSBA website at www.wsba.org. Thanks to all of you for your continued engagement in this important issue of the day.

Paula Littlewood, WSBA executive director

In February 2004, our state was caught up in the wave of lawsuits breaking across the country following the Goodridge v. Dept. of Public Health1 decision. In Goodridge, a divided Massachusetts Supreme Court mandated for the first time that same-sex marriage was required by that state’s constitution. Same-sex marriage advocates in Washington filed similar state constitutional challenges later consolidated as Anderson v. King County.2 I represented lawmakers and urban and religious leaders who intervened and successfully defended the one man/one woman limitation (or, “marriage limitation”). At the time, Mr. Doug Wheeler, one of my clients, was the director of an urban private school that serves children in Seattle’s Central Area. Mr. Wheeler told the Court why he felt compelled to intervene and defend the marriage limitation:

Although so many of our kids lack a father or mother, they need to have kept before them the goal of marriage between a husband and wife. We are trying to put children and homes back together and critical to achieving that goal is being able to hold up before their eyes the standard of marriage and that its main purpose is to nurture and love children.

Mr. Wheeler’s statement to the Court evokes the central question of the marriage debate: What is the purpose of civil marriage? Examining the two different views of the purpose of civil marriage is predictive of whether or not one believes a legitimate public-policy reason exists for supporting the marriage limitation.

The Purpose for Civil Marriage Advanced by Proponents of Same-Sex Marriage
Proponents of same-sex marriage claim the state recognizes marriage to aid adults in taking care of one another. Patricia Novotny, who represented the plaintiffs in the Anderson case, wrote in the September Bar News that the state “through marriage helps family members care for one another” to “stabiliz[e] society and minimiz[e] the demands on it from dependent citizens. By enhancing private caretaking, the state enhances public welfare.” Ms. Novotny acknowledges that a great deal of private caretaking activity already occurs among family members without the stabilizing effect of marriage, e.g., children caring for their parents. Nonetheless, she says society created marriage to help adults do private caretaking “more effectively.” It is easy to see that if Ms. Novotny is correct, there might not be a rational reason for denying marriage to same-sex couples.

Undeniably, married couples on the whole take better care of one another than if they were not married. But Ms. Novotny doesn’t explain why we should accept her formulation as the primary purpose of marriage, other than to claim, without authority, that it is the one “[v]iewed historically and presently.” But as we shall see, effective private-caretaking is not the primary purpose of marriage to the vast majority of Americans, or viewed historically, or as recognized by the courts.
 
The Purpose of Marriage Supported by Most Americans, History, and the Courts
It surely hasn’t escaped the reader’s notice that when given the opportunity to cast a ballot on the legal definition of marriage, Americans overwhelmingly vote to protect the marriage limitation. For example, in 2004, a majority of Oregonians voted for Democratic presidential candidate John Kerry and for a constitutional amendment to protect the marriage limitation from judicial review. Without exception, every ballot measure to protect the marriage limitation by constitutional amendment, 26 in all, has passed by large majorities. Forty-five states have either a constitutional amendment or statute expressly limiting marriage to one man and one woman.

Not a Single State Has Enacted Same-Sex Marriage Through the Legislative Process or by Ballot Measure
The explanation can’t be invidious discrimination against gays, lesbians, or their relationships when the trend is toward greater tolerance of gays and lesbians. The most reasonable explanation for the widespread support for the marriage limitation, while Americans are at the same time approving greater legal protections for gays, is that voters believe the purpose of marriage is furthered by opposite-sex couples, generally speaking, but not by same-sex couples. It follows that, to the majority of Americans, marriage is about something more than helping adults more effectively care for one another and reduce state dependency. Marriage, as we shall see, is about encouraging heterosexual procreation within marriage.

The view that society sanctions civil marriage to reduce state dependency does not square with history. Marriage preceded the emergence of the welfare state by centuries; indeed it has been with us as long as recorded history. Government as provider of basic social services on a broad scale is a late 19th-century phenomenon, first carried out in Germany under Bismarck. For that matter, marriage predated the emergence of the nation-state and, before that, feudalism. There is simply no historical support for the notion that civil marriage was intended as society’s complement to state welfare services and benefits.

The courts confirm both the historical and conventional view of the purpose of marriage. Since the 1800s, when polygamy advocates last challenged the marriage limitation, courts discussing marriage consistently linked their decisions to the family structure of one man, one woman, and their children.3 The United States Supreme Court characterized the right to marry as fundamental: “Marriage and procreation are fundamental to the very existence and survival of the race.”4 The Court reaffirmed the connection between marriage and procreation and child-rearing when it placed the “decision to marry” on “the same level of importance as decisions relating to procreation, childbirth, child-rearing and family relationships.” 5 Courts have continued to rely on the link between marriage and procreation in recent decisions.6

Even a decision heavily relied upon by same-sex marriage proponents supports the link between marriage, procreation, and children. In Loving v. Virginia,7 anti-miscegenation laws interfered with marriage between a man and a woman in pursuit of invidious racial segregation policies. Unlike anti-miscegenation laws, the marriage limitation reinforces, rather than disrupts, the historical understanding of marriage as a unique male-female relationship.8 While marriage has always been defined as a male-female relationship, it was defined by race only when racial marriage restrictions were imposed as badges and incidents of slavery. “In this respect, Southern anti-miscegenation laws ran counter to the Western tradition of marriage law.”9

A string of recent court decisions have recognized that channeling procreation into marriage is the principal purpose of marriage.10

Thus, the popular view of marriage, history, and nearly every appellate court decision since the 1800s point to the purpose for civil marriage — encouraging child-bearing and child-rearing in the optimal environment headed by the two people most responsible for that child’s very existence. This is the rational basis relied on by all the courts for the marriage limitation.11

Marriage Channels Heterosexual Sex into a Stable Environment for Children
Sexual intercourse commonly results in pregnancy. And pregnancy results in a child. That child needs rearing by responsible adults. The institution of marriage forges a link between sex, procreation, and child-rearing. Society needs a structure, however unattainable it may be for some, to channel heterosexual sex into a stable, committed relationship for the sake of children. 12

By legally sanctioning heterosexual relationships through marriage, the state imposes both obligations and benefits on the couple. All too often, heterosexual relationships are casual or temporary. The state communicates to parents that long-term, committed relationships are uniquely important as a public concern. Civil marriage is based on inexorable biological and relational facts. The state recognizes marriage to direct the procreation that is sure to take place into marriage. An important function of marriage is to create more stability and permanence in the relationships that cause children to be born. The obligations and benefits of marriage offer an inducement to opposite-sex couples who make a solemn, long-term commitment to each other. And in so doing, the two persons most responsible for creating the child are encouraged to raise the child.

Public-policy makers could conclude that the rationale for marriage does not apply with comparable force to same-sex relationships. Homosexual couples cannot, as a matter of biology, produce their own offspring and so children of homosexual parents will in 100 percent of all cases be raised by at least one non-biological parent. It follows that government may confer recognition on opposite-sex marriages, which may produce children, but not confer recognition on same-sex “marriages.” There is simply no equivalent to marriage of a man and a woman.

The Purpose for the Marriage Limitation is Not Weakened by Including Infertile Opposite-Sex Couples and Excluding Same-Sex Couples with Children
Same-sex marriage proponents contend that procreation and child-rearing are no longer, if they ever were, the bases for the marriage limitation because fertility has never been a condition of civil marriage. But most laws are underinclusive or overinclusive. That fact does not render the classification invalid.13 Moreover, inquiry into the procreative intentions and capacity of prospective couples would raise obvious privacy concerns under the Constitution.14
Same-sex marriage proponents also argue that an opposite-sex couple must not be the optimal structure or else the state would not permit gays to adopt or to have children through artificial means. However, the state’s desire to protect the biological relationship does not require the state to outlaw adoptions or otherwise to prevent parents from raising children to whom they are not biologically related. It does, however, allow the state to express a preference for biological parents. This policy supports a marriage law, which is not only limited to male-female couples, but which extends the benefits of marriage to those willing to undertake a legal and lengthy financial commitment to each other and their children.

In certain cases, the best interests of children may necessitate placing a child in a non-traditional home. But the state’s focus is just that, on the best interests of children in less than ideal circumstances. “Alternative arrangements, such as adoption, arise not primarily in deference to the emotional needs or sexual choices of adults, but to meet the needs of children whose biological parents fail in their parenting role.”15 The state may reasonably conclude that the optimal family form does not always work for some children, while still preferring the family headed by a mother and father as the preferred environment for procreating and raising children.

Nothing about adoption or placing children in a single-parent home undermines the state’s preference for rearing children by their natural parents. And leaving the area of reproductive technology unregulated is not the same as elevating that technology to a status equal with procreation by the biological parents of the offspring.

Opposite-Sex Couples Model Both Halves (Genders) of Humanity to Children
Policy makers could also conclude that the state has a further interest in promoting heterosexual marriage that does not apply with equal force to same-sex couples. Fundamental to human life in society is the co-existence of male and female persons. This co-existence is expressed in the paradigm of marriage of a man and woman. Intuition and experience suggest that a child benefits from having before his or her eyes, every day, living models of what both a man and a woman are like. Opposites in sex, appearance, body structure, and outlook model the importance of community through diversity. Marriage presents to children and society at large the value of creating community with others unlike themselves. Children not only fare better when their biological parents raise them, but they need intimate contact with both halves of humanity, male and female.16

It is reasonable for policy makers to assume that children with both a father and a mother benefit from the balance of a two-gender household.

Marriage Should Reinforce the Importance of the Role of Fathers (and Mothers)
Today more than ever, society can ill afford to lose any further influence in establishing as normative procreation within marriage to ensure that children are raised by those responsible for bringing them into the world. Mr. Wheeler’s real-life observation in the opening paragraph of this article is such a warning.

Princeton University lecturer and psychiatrist Dr. Jeffrey Satinover stated in his declaration filed in the Anderson litigation that numerous peer-reviewed studies confirm that from fatherless homes come 63 percent of all youth suicides, 90 percent of all homeless and runaway children, 85 percent of all children with behavioral problems, 71 percent of all high school dropouts, 85 percent of all youths in prison, and well over 50 percent of all teen mothers. Quantifiable deficits occur in literally every area of development due in part to the absence of a father — social, psychological, intellectual, educational, emotional, relational, and medical and other health risks. Same-sex marriage would result in the incongruity of conferring state approval on unions that would ensure children were raised in fatherless (or motherless) homes. The state has a vital interest in maintaining the simple and internally consistent definition of marriage.

To the extent procreation in the optimal context of heterosexual marriage is a state interest, the state has a corresponding interest in refraining from deliberately redefining marriage to include unions which cannot, as an entire category, satisfy this interest.

Laws not only regulate behavior through coercive powers, but also in “expressing social values and in encouraging social norms to move in particular directions.”17 “The expressive function of law is important because the social norms it fosters encourages good behavior; without this effect, coercion or economic pressure might be needed to induce desirable behavior.”18 Law must not only be logical and coherent, it must be clear so that its expressive function is not muted.

Thus, choosing to permit or restrict marriage is a choice of what political and social organizing principle society will follow. If and when the Legislature takes up the issue of whether to redefine marriage, it will be considering whether to reorder society. This is not the function of judges in our system of democratic government.

If Marriage Is About Recognizing the Personal Choices of Individuals Who Wish to Care for Each Other, Then There Is No State Interest in Recognizing Some But Not All Such Private Arrangements
Same-sex marriage proponents argue that marriage is the state’s recognition of individuals’ choices to marry the persons they love or wish to be committed to for mutual caretaking. In other words, marriage recognition is driven by the private values and personal preferences of adults, not society’s choice of the optimal environment in which to channel heterosexual sex for the sake of their children.

What proponents seem to ignore is that adopting their formulation for marriage recognition would create a presumption against any state regulation of marriage that interfered with the personal preferences of adults. The burden would shift to the state to justify each regulation that excluded some group of adults. The power to choose the basic organizing unit of society would be stripped from the state and placed in the hands of any two or more individuals who express mutual commitment or love. The prohibitions against polygamy, for example, would fall next if the prohibition against same-sex marriage is declared invalid.19 In other words, the theory of same-sex marriage contains no principle that would include members of the same sex, but still limit marriage to couples.

By contrast, the theories underlying the marriage limitation for recognizing marriage and conferring benefits focus on the uniqueness of the male-female couple as the only union of two persons that can produce children, raise their own offspring, and provide intimate contact with both halves of humanity. This theory of marriage is coherent both in the union it recognizes (and those it does not) and the public-policy reasons for creating the obligations and benefits associated with marriage.

It is important to note that the marriage limitation does not single out same-sex marriage for exclusion. Other forms of marriage are invalid because they do not further the state’s interest in procreation within the optimal environment for children.20 Hence, if the justifications for the marriage limitation are illegitimate, then there is nothing left to support the state’s interest in sanctioning marriage as a special relationship. All relationships would be on an equal footing.

Advocates of same-sex marriage commonly respond by reframing the question: “How would same-sex marriage discourage opposite-sex couples from procreating within marriage?” It may or may not, but it would certainly change the purpose and definition of marriage. But perhaps more to the point, this is not the question that courts answer in the face of the public’s clear public-policy preference for marriage defined as one man and one woman. As discussed above, nearly all laws are underinclusive. The question for courts reviewing statutory classifications is whether there is a rational basis for the Legislature drawing the classification as it has. The Washington State Supreme Court and nearly every other appellate court to consider the question have concluded that a rational basis unquestionably exists.

The Washington State Supreme Court rejected various arguments that the denial of marriage to same-sex couples implicated fundamental rights requiring strict scrutiny analysis. Under federal constitutional analysis, for a fundamental right to exist it must be “objectively” and “deeply rooted in this Nation’s history and tradition” and “implicit in the concept of ordered liberty,” so that “neither liberty nor justice would exist if they were sacrificed.”21 To date, no appellate court has held that a fundamental right to same-sex marriage is deeply rooted in this nation’s history and tradition; even the Goodridge court conceded this. Similarly, the Court rejected the argument that the limitation targets a suspect class, homosexuality. Every court asked to do so, including the Ninth Circuit, has declined to hold that homosexuality is a suspect class requiring heightened scrutiny.22

Conclusion
Though the principal public-policy reason for recognizing marriage does not include same-sex couples and other relationships, it is undeniable that some of the interests of opposite-sex couples are shared by same-sex couples and others who cannot marry. The Legislature recently created domestic partnerships to confer inheritance, property, hospital visitation, and other rights to same-sex couples. It is unclear why those same benefits should not be provided to two sisters, for example, who live together, pool their resources, and provide mutual care and support, but cannot marry either. In any event, the best way to address the legitimate needs of the adults who cannot marry is through a different institution than marriage.

Marriage law is not about discriminating against homosexuals. Marriage predated the emergence of homosexuals as an identifiable group by millennia.23 Marriage is about forging a vital social connection between heterosexual sex, the children who are the consequence of that union, and the optimal environment in which to raise those children. 

Steven T. O’Ban is a trial lawyer and a member of Ellis, Li & McKinstry PLLC. He can be reached at soban@elmlaw.com.

Notes
 1.  798 N.E.2d 941 (2003).
 2.  158 Wn.2d 1 (2006).
 3.  Anderson, 158 Wn. 2d at 36-37.
 4.  Skinner v. Oklahoma. 316 U.S. 535, 541, 62 S. Ct. 1110 (1942).
 5.  Zablocki v. Redhail, 434 U.S. 374, 386, 98 S. Ct. 673 (1978).
 6.  Standhardt v. Superior Court, 77 P.3d 451 (Ariz. Ct. App. 2003).
 7.  388 U.S. 1, 87 S.Ct. 1817 (1967).
 8.  Singer v. Hara, 11 Wn. App. 247, 253-54.
 9.  Coolidge, David Orgon, “Playing the Loving Card: Same-Sex Marriage and the Politics of Analogy,”12 BYU J. Pub. L. 201, 219-20 (1998).
 10. Hernandez v. Nobles, 855 N.E.2d 1, 7 (N.Y. 2006) (The Legislature “could find that an important function of marriage is to create more stability and permanence in the relationships that cause children to be born”).
 11. Anderson, 158 Wn. 2d at 35-39.
 12. Id.
 13. Anderson 158 Wn. 2d at 31-32.
 14. Griswold v. Connecticut, 381 U.S.  479, 489, 85 S. Ct. 1678 (1965).
 15. Gallagher, Maggie, “What Is Marriage For? The Public Purposes of Marriage Law,” 62 La. L. Rev. 773, 788 (2002).
 16. Dent, “The Defense of Traditional Marriage,” 15 J. L. & Pol. 581, 634 (1999).
 17. Id. at 586.
 18. Id.
 19. One commentator observes that “[t]he Equal Protection argument for same-sex marriage also applies to polygamy. The ban on polygamy discriminates  … against … bisexuals, who cannot act on their sexual preference within marriage unless they can have multiple spouses.” Dent, supra, at 628. So too with first-cousin marriages: “[T]he main arguments for endorsing gay marriage — individual autonomy in intimate affairs and validation of loving relationships — also apply to endogamy.” Id. at 631.
 20. RCW 26.04.010; RCW 26.04.020.
 21. Anderson, 158 Wn. 2d at 25, citing Washington v. Glucksberg, 521 U.S. 702, 720-21, 117 S.Ct. 2258  (1997).
 22. Anderson,, 158 Wn. 2d at 21; High Tech Gays v. Defense Indus. Sec. Clearance, 895 F.2d 563, 573 (9th Cir. 1990); Lofton v. Secretary of the Dep’t of Children and Family Serv., 358 F.3d 804, 817 (11th Cir. 2004) (“all of our sister circuits that have considered the question have declined to treat homosexuals as a suspect class”).
 23. Lawrence v. Texas, 539 U.S. 558, 568, 123 S.Ct. 2472 (2003).


 





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